Choosing the Perfect Matching Commitment Rings
We must not forget about the CoupleSet band, the unsung hero of a ring's overall look and feel. The metal you choose can have significant effect on the ring's appearance and its durability.
Gold is a classic choice and is available in a variety of shades such as white, yellow, and rose. Platinum is more durable, but also more expensive option. Some people also choose more unconventional metals such as titanium or tungsten to give modern-day appeal.
Each metal has its own set of requirements and longevity. Platinum, for instance, is a highly robust metal, but it can develop a patina over time. Some people like this vintage look. Gold, however, is softer and more susceptible to scratches.
Examine for allergies to metals. Nickel is a metallic component that is often used in gold alloys, can trigger allergic reactions. If you're not sure hypoallergenic metals such as platinum or palladium are safer choices.
The metal you choose should complement the stone as well as your girlfriend's preferences. Think of the metal as a frame that enhances the 'picture' of the precious stone. It should also be an option that is practical and fits your girlfriend's lifestyle.
The main takeaway? Don't rush your decision. Consider carefully the pros and cons of different metals and how they can fit into your overall vision of the perfect girlfriend ring.
It's time for a spies mission to find out her size
Let's talk about size. If the ring doesn't fit it, you're back at the beginning. A ring that's too tight will create an awkward proposal and one that's too loose? Let's just say this is an invitation to disaster.
The first step is to decide if you can try the traditional method of taking one of your existing rings to a jeweler to get a measurement or simply wrapping the string around her wrist while she's asleep. But beware, these strategies can be risky and could easily blow your cover.
Here's a better option: enlist the help of her friends or family members. They can discreetly find out her height without causing suspicion. You don't want them to ruin the surprise.
According to a poll conducted by The Knot The Knot, 39% of couples reported that they shopped for the engagement ring together. If you are both open about the engagement and you want to create an occasion of having her size measured. Plus, it eliminates the guesswork from the equation.
Practical tip: If you're in doubt, you should size up rather than down. It's simpler to alter the size of a rings to a smaller diameter than to make it bigger.
Some jewelers have adjustable rings designed specifically for weddings, so you can focus on the moment instead of worrying about the fit. If she says "yes" then you can return to the jeweler to have her ring crafted to your specifications.